Cravings in Daily, Weekly, etc

So its safe to say neither me or my husband married what we would usually go after. All of his girlfriends were all blonde and gorgeous, while mine were.... well.... whatevers. lol However, I have always been attracted to tall slender men, with big strong arms and gorgeous eyes and a cute smile. A man that you just want to curl up in his arms and make out with for hours, then flip his ass over and ride him like a horse. rofl Which is the very thing that I'm craving for!!! Unfortunately I'm a married woman with vows I promised to keep 2 and a half years ago. sigh I guess it doesn't help that our sex life is in the toilet, and that he is never home because he is either underway or on deployment. Now That I think about it we have really only spent a year of our almost 3 years together since walking down the aisle. Which I was prepared for and expected before that fateful day; but my body is craving something else. OMG! However what fuels the fire even more is that sadly I'm not attracted to my husband at all. I love him to death and would do anything for him, we are best friends "forever and always" (is our motto). However when I look at him I just don't feel the urge to pull him close, I hate to sound so shallow because looks aren't everything thats for damn sure,(Learned that first hand people!) I just wish my mind would get the memo. But my body shakes and shivers just thinking about having a naughty night with a guy that looks like Joseph Gordon levitt (which I saw one in the store last night), but then again what girls body wouldn't shake and shiver for a guy like Joseph Gordon levitt. AHHH!!