Sounds like an emotional day but with a lot more ups than downs. It sounds as if you did Iva proud. I'm glad your mum and Talan supported you and got on well at dinner, the cake fighting made me laugh^^ Funerals days always offer some recollection but i can never remember what I did once i come back home from church. But doing positive things or keeping busy help us to cope and carry on. Good on you for doing the car in your nightie! ;D