Too close for comfort in Life
- Feb. 21, 2017, 11:59 p.m.
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So I’ve known this guy 5 months back and we’ve been good friends since then, but I think he’s being to close for my own comfort… He keeps on punching (not that violent) my forearm, keeps on poking my waist and tickles my knee. When he wants to show something on his phone to me, he leans and puts his other arm on my chair. Yesterday he took photos of me and used it as his Snapchat profile picture.
I don’t wanna get any ideas cuz I know he has a girlfriend and I know he wouldn’t just betray he like that after 2+ years. I’m just uncomfortable with his proximity. People are even talking about how close we are. I don’t want to tell him to back off cuz idk maybe it’s just how he treats his close friends idk. Maybe it’s also because I’ve never had a guy as a best friend.
sigh I’m overthinking again.
So what do you guys think?
The Distance ⋅ February 22, 2017
He likes you. He might not know it but he does. Do you like him in that way? If you don't, maybe you should think about backing away for a bit.
Would you be comfortable with your boyfriend acting this way around another girl? Whilst it isn't your fault, you do have the means to stop it from happening.