People and love these days. They disgust me. Let me rephrase...people and what they call "love", disgust me. People have what I call the Taylor Swift Syndrome....TSS ; it's not just for tampons!!! A new person every few weeks. And they love them. And they're the one for them...ugh ugh ugh.
I have a guy on my facebook....he's about 25/26...and he's engaged; for the 5 time in the past year. And he "knows this is the one" this time...and "she's perfect in every way" and "thank God for this wonderful beautiful woman that's changed his life". And they've only been together for A MONTH! Isn't that swell? Oh and only 3 months ago, he was engaged to someone else....and about 5 months before that he was engaged to someone who was having his kid...his SEVENTH kid. he only has joint custody of one of them. Superb. That's another story.
I can't take people like this. First off, I do not believe you can quickly become so "in love" with someone. In lust, yes. In love with the idea of them and happiness, of course. IN LOVE?? No. I do not believe in love at first sight (not that, that's the case with him) I fully believe true love takes time. LOTs of time. I also can't stand when someone is dating someone for a short time and they call the other person's kids, THEIR kids..or their stepkids. Sigh. Kids being raised by morons these days, I feel so sorry for them. They'll grow up even more messed up and confused with life than their parents were. I get people who have dated a long time saying these things...but I'm sorry. 4 months does not make you a "dad" or "mom" to someones kid. It's bullcrap.
I would like to say this is a younger generation thing, but I've seen people my age and older, do the same stuff. Every man a woman dates is her kids "dad"....Daddy Jake...Daddy Ryan...Daddy Steve. OH MY SWEET BABY JESUS, stop!!! I seriously cannot stomach people like this.
People have lost the concept of love. They meet a man at McDonald's, say hi, exchange numbers and BAM! THey're in love, engaged two weeks later and having a kid. That's not love...it's idiotic.
People rush things when it comes to love and dating...and this coming from a girl who use to sleep with guys on a 2nd date. (Please note I said USE TO) People come on way to strong....throwing around the words "Baby" and "love" and "soul mate" and "meant to be". Way to quick to say they can see the future with you. I literally gag when guys say stuff like that when I'm talking to them. The only two people I have ever called baby, were people I were in long relationships with. Or my kid of course. To me that's an intimate term and not something every Joe Blow I date should call me. People want to meet and spark and it be done. They've lost the whole concept of courting. ( I'm so old fashioned sometimes. )
women should have more commons sense, but I swear it's more women doing this than men. Dumb little girls, really. Changing relationships like I change underwear. I take pees longer than their relationships.
another one I love...the woman who in one FB posts tells EVERY SINGLE bad thing her guy has done..then 2hrs later, brags about how awesome and sweet and loving he is. Ok, but you just said how you caught him snuggled up in his truck with some other woman, so..... And this is not an exaggeration. This girl caught her man making plans to MOVE IN WITH ANOTHER WOMAN and leave her..he boohoo'd "sorry" and two weeks later TO THE DAY! she married him, then got preggo. Un-FREAKING-believable. So then you want to cry about how he acts? Um....... do we really not see the problem here? I do not get how people can be so stupid!! Yes they say love "dumbs us down" or is "blind"..but really?? REALLY??
I think this is why I'm so hard on guys I meet. I'm so dead set on NOT being one of THOSE girls, that I give no room for error. But I look at it like this....I put up with so much lying and deceit and bullcrap from my ex husband, that I refuse...REFUSE..to put up with anything. I know people aren't perfect, I get that. But there are certain signs I now know to look for and if I see it, I'm out.....but I digress...my dating issues are for another entry.
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