Fiancee in Jessica and Me

Things have been interesting. I think we still have a whole lot to learn and explore with making this relationship work exactly the way we’d like, but it’s been going more smoothly throughout the process than I would have thought.

We’re actually having a lot of fun. Jess continues to meet up with Kevin regularly. And we’ve also had two more threesomes with him.

Her consistency with Kevin lead us to a discussion about whether or not she should use the term “boyfriend” to describe him. I told her that I thought it was proper in a polyamorous relationship for her to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend (or several of each) so long as there was something distinguishing me as her number 1.

That’s when we decided to call each other by the term “fiancee.” We’ve technically been engaged for a while now, but we’d never called each other that until now.

I texted the guy I’ve written about here called Golden Hill. I literally hadn’t talked to him in more than a year. My text said, “What are you up to? Want to get together for sex?”

I’m sure it caught him by surprise. That was my intention. After several hours he wrote back, but nothing sexual. Just asking me how I’ve been and things like that. I answered his questions, and then told him I really wanted to fuck him.

He wrote back that he has a girlfriend now and he didn’t think he could do that. I was being playful, and I responded, “Fine with me, I like threesomes!”

We didn’t talk again for days. Then I got a text that said, “My gf likes that idea.”

I said, “What idea?” I was really clueless.

He said, “Thressome. Were you serious about that?”

So now I think that’s going to happen.