MY HUBBY IS DYING in HUBBY

  • April 25, 2016, 1:44 a.m.
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THEY SAY MY HUBBY IS DYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I BROUGHT HIM INTO THE HOSPITAL ALMOST THREE WEEKS AGO. a million doctors came to see us and all they can say is that there is nothing more they can do for him. SO ALL DAY EVERYDAY WE Wait in the hospital. wait for him to die. HE IS PUTTING ON A VERY BRAVE FRONT BUT HE IS BORED TO DEATH AND SICK AND TIRED OF BEING IN THE HOSPITAL. LAST NIGHT AS I WAS LEAVING THE HOSPITAL I WONDERED IF I SHOULD/COULD BRING HIM HOME. HE WAS ENJOYING COMPANY BUT NO MORE. I WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS TODAY.
MY DAUGHTER HAS BEEN HERE BUT IS GOING HOME TODAY FOR A FEW DAYS. SHE HAS BEEN WONDERFUL!!!!!
MY SONS HAVE BEEN COMING EVERYDAY. THE TROUBLE IS MY HUBBY DOESN’T WANT TO DIE BUT TO LIVE LIKE HE IS IS INHUMANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY DO THEY ALLOW PEOPLE TO LIVE AND WAIT TO DIE. SO FAR HE IS NOT IN PAIN. TOO BAD BECAUSE IF HE WAS THEY COULD START GIVING HIM STRONG MEDS.
BELIEVE ME I AM NOT WISHING HIM DEA BUT I CAN’T STAND SEEING HIM SO MISERABLE.
I HIRED SOMEONE TO BE WITH HIM DURING THE NIGHT. WHEN HE WASS IN EMERGENCY MY DAUGHTER AND STAYED AROUND THE CLOCK BUT I COULD SEE THAT WE COUDLN’T ANYMORE.
SO I STAY ALL DAY STARTING AROUND SIX. MY DAUGHTER COMES IN THE AFTERNOON., MTY SONS COME AFTER WORK. AND I GO HOME. I HAVE BEEN SLEEPING SHORT AND WELL. LAST NIGHT I WENT TO BED ABOUT TEN SO I AM UP NOW BUT NOT FOR LONG.
I MIGHT GO SEE THE ONCOLOGIST THIS MORNING TO SEE IF IT MAKES SENSE TO TAKE HIM HOME.
I KNOW I WOULD NEED AROUND THE CLOCK HELP....................................................


QueenSuzu April 25, 2016

I am so sorry to hear this. Can he go into hospice?

Deleted user April 25, 2016

OMG, I am so, so sorry!

Deleted user April 25, 2016

I'm so so sorry.
A friend's mom is also in her last stage of life and is in a hospice. I visited last week and was amazed at how beautiful and homey it was, with great care. It's covered by public health care...no cost to the family. Could this be an option?
Hugs

whowhatwhere April 25, 2016

Don't they have hospice care there?
It took my Mom years to die after they said it was end stage, the last year was the worst.
I'm sorry you are going through this.

cardslinger April 26, 2016

I am so sorry. It must be so difficult to see hi this way. HUGS

HappyAtLast May 13, 2016

I am so sorry to hear this ...prayers to all of you.

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