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  • Oct. 8, 2015, 11:50 a.m.
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Rob has been gone for almost three weeks now. It’s still weird hearing his bedroom door going and Bel coming down the stairs! He hasn’t really been in touch much, but he’s been updating his Facebook every so often with photos of the shenanigans they’ve been up to.
He had one of his friends from Home go and spend the weekend with him last weekend. I’m not sure what’s going on with this friend, he’s recently been kicked out of home by his mum, who rang while he was at work and asked his boss to tell him not to bother coming back, his stuff was in the garden. Rob was saying how horrible his mum was for doing it, and I was trying to explain that she must have had her reasons. As the days went on, Rob was finding out more titbits of info, like how he wasn’t allowed in the house to collect the rest of his stuff without a police escort, so something very serious must have happened. So his friend has been living in the hotel where they both work.
Then a few days ago, this friend posted on Facebook about how sad he was that his uncle, who had depression, had committed suicide. The next day, Rob had posted a picture of himself with his sisters, saying how much he missed them, then was leaving me messages asking me when I was available to chat. So I think he’s been feeling a bit homesick, now that the partying is over and the work has begun!
Anyway, I’ve told him to party hard, but work harder. He also alluded that there may be a girl on the scene, but I didn’t push for info!
Driving is still going ok. I’m still nervous beforehand and I’ll admit that I’m not really enjoying it yet, but I’m sure I will once I get the hang of it. I just need to suck it up if I want to drive! My driving instructor has stopped telling me what to do quite so much, instead he asks me what I should be doing. Like “look at your speed....What gear should you be in?” and “what should you be doing while we’re approaching this roundabout?” I know after a while it will become second nature, I’m already changing gear on my own (although I forget sometimes when I’m driving through town and concentrating on the other traffic!) He had me doing 70 on a dual carriageway on Sunday, but the idiots seemed to be out in force, 2 people overtook me dangerously, one approaching a busy roundabout, another crossing a high bridge when the oncoming car was very close. So that shook me up a bit. But I guess it’s all part and parcel!
My hair. It’s calming down. It turns out I was washing it with the baking soda far too often, while your hair is getting used to not being washed with shampoo, you’re only supposed to be doing it once every four days. When my hair was long, there would be no way I’d leave it that long, it would be lank and horrible if i didn’t wash it every day. But it looks ok while it’s short. I was washing it every day because I was having to wear hairspray in it to stop me looking like a bogbrush, but it turns out my hair is only like that when it’s freshly washed, so I can get away with using no product in it at all. While your hair is getting used to the sebum production, it’s called transition, which can last months in some people! It’s been 18 days for me now with no shampoo, and my scalp has had a few spots and is itchy, both of which are normal. I’m hoping that once my head calms down, my hair will be lovely, healthy and shiny. Fingers crossed!


Seacláid October 08, 2015

Ah, learner cars make other people act like lunatics on the road. I was driving my Dad's BSM car past Asda and some prick decided to undertake me on a roundabout. Gave me a fright whem I checked my mirror and found a car that I thought was turning left was right beside me ready to collide with me as we exitted the roundabout. I hated driving my dad's car after that. Some people just see the L plates and decide it's okay to drive unsafely. Not all learner cars are learners (or stupidly slow). It does become second nature, though even now I forget to change gears or stall the car because I'm so used to driving an automatic (which never stalls or struggles with gear changing). Keep going though, don't let the lunatics put you off too much - they'll drop off when you don't have L's emblazoned across the car :)

Waterfire October 08, 2015

Learning to drive can be an utter pain the arse, but passing is the best thing ever! Just gotta push through it.

I've stopped washing my hair everyday since I dyed it. I currently go two days without washing, and at first it looked disgusting, but now it seems to be calming down a bit. At some point I'd like to see if I can leave it longer between washes. Also, I've noticed having itchy spots on my scalp too when it's not washed! I wonder if that calms down after a while?

Babe In Toyland Waterfire ⋅ October 08, 2015

Do the nerves go after a bit? I find myself dreading my lessons at the moment! My instructor is lovely though, he's from Merseyside and when he was trying to get to hit 70, he was going "come on, girl! You can do it!" (Imagine that in a scouse accent!) Making me proper giggle

Waterfire Babe In Toyland ⋅ October 08, 2015

I think it's easier after you pass! I found the problem was that there was someone else in the car watching me. Once I was allowed to drive by myself, I felt a lot calmer. And I had the most laid back instructor! He used to eat his packed lunch while teaching me :)

Bomb Shell October 08, 2015

Yeah I was really nervous when I was learning to drive, really gripping the steering wheel, gritting my teeth and couldn't talk. It's perfectly normal and the same for everyone. Sadly, idiots on the road are something you have to get used to. There are many many more of them around here and I don't envy Jay learning to drive amongst them. The way I deal with it is just to assume that everyone is going to try and kill me, because a lot of them are...

Babe In Toyland Bomb Shell ⋅ October 08, 2015

It annoys me because I'm in a car that has DRIVING SCHOOL written all over it, yet they're still acting like pricks. They must know that I'm not experienced and could potentially be a danger to them and other road users. I was driving at the speed limit too, I wasn't dawdling!

Babe In Toyland Bomb Shell ⋅ October 09, 2015

How long did it take before you stopped being nervous? This is ridiculous, I've been feeling sick. :(

Bomb Shell Babe In Toyland ⋅ October 09, 2015

Don't worry about it, really it takes different people different lengths of time. To be honest I was nervous for quite a while when I first started learning, especially when we were doing something new or unexpected. It just gradually fades over time when you become more confident and know what you're doing. I thought you were enjoying it though!

Babe In Toyland Bomb Shell ⋅ October 09, 2015

I enjoy it once I'm driving, well, the nerves stop anyway because I'm too busy concentrating! But today I felt like something just clicked...he had me crawling the car at junctions using the clutch, instead of stopping and going like I have been. I confessed to him that I got nervous at junctions, especially when there's cars behind, because I sometimes roll or I come off the clutch too quick and jolt. It's just nerves, but I think I got it today! No, I wasn't enjoying driving in towns, I'm ok doing 60 on the A595, but remembering where all my arms and legs are supposed to be when navigating housing estates was making me a quivering wreck!

Johnny Carcinogen October 09, 2015

I've been supremely busy and I haven't had much chance to catch up with my bookmarks... why has Rob esca - um, I mean, left home?

Babe In Toyland Johnny Carcinogen ⋅ October 09, 2015

He's gone to uni. To study criminology. Yes, I know.

Johnny Carcinogen Babe In Toyland ⋅ October 09, 2015

Ha, yeah right.

Wait, you're serious?

HMMF. Excuse me... for just one moment. I'll be right back.

Steps outside

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OH GOD THE FUCKING SHEER IRONY AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Steps back inside

That's... that's great. No, really. I'm... PFFT I'm truly happy for him. Excuse me, one second, won't you?

Steps back outside

BAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Etc.

Babe In Toyland Johnny Carcinogen ⋅ October 09, 2015

;)
He got the grades, poacher turned gamekeeper and all that!

Johnny Carcinogen Babe In Toyland ⋅ October 09, 2015

Well, you know. All the best cops are fucking criminals to begin with, so hooray for Rob. He's joined the enemy.

DUN DUN DUUUUN

Lucretia October 09, 2015

I enjoyed learning to drive but it was utterly terrifying at the same time. I used to have to get straight in the shower afterwards because I'd sweat so much (gross but true). I plateaued around lesson 16 and got very disheartened, but around hour 22 I started to pick back up and enjoy it more. Didn't stop freaking out until about hour 40 when I could drive pretty well. I think for me it was a confidence thing, after all, you're driving a ton of speeding metal! You'll get there, it just takes time :) x

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