So here’s the story.
After I broke up with my last boyfriend (a month or so ago) I started going on a lot of dates. I tried younger. Hotter. Older. Funnier. Taller. I wanted to see what I enjoyed and see if for example older was better. (Nope) I meet all my men from okcupid. I remember one night I was going through quick match feature that was very similar to tinder. You just see photos age and match % one guy caught my eye. He looked average. He was cute he looked happy. So I swiped right and was happy to see he had liked me too.
We started talking and it was basic conversation. Enjoyable. Not over the top and he didnt push to meet or anything. He just enjoyed messaging me and we talked for about a week before he asked me to meet him. He came on a Saturday when I finished work. He was tall and smiling when I walked up to him. We went to eat quickly and went to a bar for drinks.
I don’t filter myself ever. I act like me. There is no charm period when I meet someone. The night was nice. We talked a lot and laughed alot. A guy from work stopped by cause I had forgotten my charger. He joined us for a while. When it was time to go he told me ‘you are exactly what I have been looking for. Why didn’t I find you before?’ We actually lived in the same neighborhood at one point. We might have crossed paths or seen each other somewhere.
We made plans to meet the next day. He came to kadıköy on the Asian side to meet me. We had a few drinks. Then went to watch football. We drank rakı and he looked in my eyes. ‘You are perfect. Please be my girlfriend’ i freaked out a moment. I’ve known him 24hours. I looked at him and his gentle face smiling at me. You can see in his eyes that he meant every sweet word he said to me. And so we began.
In the less than 2 weeks together we have seen each other 3 days a week (Saturday Sunday and Wednesday) we message a lot. We tag each other on sweet or funny instagram messages. He bought us plane tickets to the south of Turkey for holiday next month. We have talked of moving in together in January when my lease is up. We have also talked about getting married.
When something feels right why not just go for it? We talk about all of these things. We also know that maybe it won’t work. Maybe we make all of these plans but they never happen. But its ok! We are planning for something we want right now. I am happy. He is happy. Isn’t this the most important thing?
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