Meany Wednesday, January 31, 2007
This is how the story goes.
Girl meets boy.
Boy is extremely nice, caring, thoughtful, and funny.
A month goes by.
Boy decides since he "has" the girl he can be an asshole.
Girl hopes the behavior stops.
Girl waits for the behavior to stop.
Girl prays the behavior stops.
Girl ignores the behavior.
Girl finally gets fed up and kicks him to the curb.
So Derek and I were really hitting it off. Having great times together. Things were great. He treated me with respect and everything was great. During this time another girl was calling him and he said he wasn't interested in her and he said, "You should hear the way I talk to her. It's not very nice."
At that point I decided if he ever started talking to me that way he was gone. So yeah, he treats me like crap on the phone now. Nothing too horrible, but nothing nice either. And by nothing I mean zero. I know he's going through a lot with his grandpa and working all the time, but I have been nothing but nice to him. I expect the same back. I told him something the other day and his responce was, "I don't care." I was floored. I just dropped the subject.
I just don't get it. I am attracted to assholes. I seriously am thinking I should just ignore it and not worry about it. I am thinking that I should just ignore his comments even if they do hurt. I mean, it must be me that's taking things too seriously. But damn, he is being mean to that girl... and now mean to me... I've become that girl. He seriously doesn't see anything wrong with it.
Whatever.
It just frustrates me. I don't know what else to do. Oh well. That's all I want to say about that.
Her
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when its no longer worth it you will stop being with him and you will know its no longer worth it when you stop being with him, its crazy but no one has ever proved their love when things are perfect, love is hey down in the trenches. [Doller Bill] [p] 2/1/2007 12:57:42 AM
Rule of thumb: If you see a red flag...run. This may be a pattern for him and if he really cares about you then he will stop. You definitely should say something to him. Don't let him get away with this behavior and if he doesn't stop then it is a sure sign to get away.
Don't think he is the only one...there are more out there. [Mistie]
2/1/2007 5:53:29 AM
[OddJohn] 2/1/2007 9:00:42 AM
If you point it out and he doesnt stop then he isnt worth it. [muted exposure] 2/1/2007 11:17:22 AM
I agree with the other noter, sudden behavior changes are not good. And if he feels comfortable treating someone else badly and laughing about it, that isn't good. Now he is repeating the same with you. Try giving him some space, see what he says in a few days. [lostonthesea] 2/1/2007 11:38:35 PM
I'd have to bet that if he's joking with you at the way he's treating HER, odds are he's joking with her about the way he's treating YOU. Sounds like you're being played. DO NOT TOLERATE IT!! [Mommy2Katie] 2/3/2007 12:16:43 AM
Funny that you should mention the pictures on the wall. I had friends threaten me that they would buy me pictures to put on them. I told them that they would end up in a flea market lol [Pickled Duck Lips] 2/3/2007 9:46:46 PM
RYN: Good point, I might ask the landlord if he'd get the place painted. However, my rent is so cheap, he never complains when I'm a few days late with it, and when the water heater and my furnace broke, he had them replaced in twenty four hours. He never asked me for a lease or much background information, other then chatting with me for five minutes before he gave me the keys. So I'd hate to be [Pickled Duck Lips] 2/4/2007 5:28:25 PM
a pest anymore then I have to. [Pickled Duck Lips]
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