Opened up the highs and lows in Well this is life

So me and my wife have been open about two years but this year we both have actually tried to be with other people. I went on a date with a friend of ours that my wife actually wants to date as well, and it was great we spent the whole time trying to get each other to blush I ended up losing seeing as she pulled my hair back and then bite my ear. It’s a weird thing after my date my wife asked me questions that I nervous and embarrassingly answered, and that is weird right to talk to your wife about dating. I have also been flirting with our friends partner as well. I see a threeway in the future weather it be mmf or ffm. The down side is my wife just jumped head first and went to threeway country real fast but broke boundaries that set off a near marriage ending fight. We are holding off sex encounters until couples counseling helps us do this ethically. We are both reading the ethical slut to help us navigate truly being open. This is within a spand of two months god help us that we can truly pull this off.