It was bound to happen.
We let a friend, M, move in with us. She walked out on her marriage, finding she had made a mistake marrying a woman with a child, and finding out to late she did not want to be in a relationship that involved raising children. She knew about the child and the parenting style of her partner, yet she married her anyway, which involve traveling to a different area to marry.
When movning in she explained she was going to stay single for at least a year. Find herself, establish a home, a job and learn to live alone. She has been in more failed marriages and relationships than one can count. In the process she changed from hetrosexual relationships and marriages to lesbian.
After she moved in it was great. She had a nice large bedroom and her own bathroom.
She quickly found a decent job. She and Deb would go house hunting, trying to find something between her job and our home so they could countinue rebuilding their broken friendship.
Then she joined a local online group for LGBT.
After about two and a half months she got involved with a woman from the group.
Our little happy home soon became just a place to ley her head when she would come here.
We had gone from a family like feeling to strangers. She and I used to enjoy Sunday mornings drinking coffee and talking for hours till Deb would wake up.
We would share dinner and cleaning up. I would pack her breakfast and lunch for her work.
It was really, really nice, as I felt I had found the friendship and love that Deb and her had.
Then two weeks ago it all changed.
We went with her and her woman friend to the lake. It was horrid. i was ignored and treated as an outcast by the woman who appears to be a rabid man hating lesbian. I have a cock and balls and am the enemy to her.
She is loud, arrogant, confrontational and carries her sign of gay pride in the forefront.
And M is drawn in by this woman. A woman 15 years her senior. Reflecting back I know know how people looked and thought when they saw me and K.
M was at home less and less. She stopped calling.
I felt at a loss for my friend.
Then Deb tells me that M is moving in with her woman. I felt betrayed and hurt that M did not have the decency to tell me.
I asked Deb , how soon till she quits her job? Deb states that M and her woman have discussed this and M does not have to work.
To me M has gravitated to this woman not in love, but in the material offerings. She has a home, can quit her job and be taken care of.
A bit o' back story....
When Richard and Mick were here, Richard fell madly in lust with her. he was all over her. M was disgusted by this. She was embaressed and offended. She claimed to not want the "PDA", but with the woman it is all fine. Its a trade off, being taken care of versus a relationship. I fear she has jumped into this for all the wrong reasons.
Deb is crushed by her quick exit, destroying all the plans she had laid out before us. We never charged her a penny. We expected nothing but to help her get on her feet and to stop jumping from bed to bed.
I am hurt, angry and pissed.
I will not allow her to ever end up in our home again. We will not be her safety net, allowing her to continue the same bad habits.
And all the closeness and love of a friend I thought I had developed with her is destroyed, never to be raised again as this is twice she has done this to us.
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