Anyone have advice? in Life Lessons

Hi it’s me again… I’m just confused I guess.. me and my husband have been married a year and a half and I feel like we’ve lost our connection… he’s always playing on his phone, I tell him things then the next day he’s already forgot, he gets mad when I want to sit and visit with him, he’s always whining that he’s tired… and he never wants to spend time with me… I don’t know what’s happened… he’s just not even the same guy he was when we were dating… it’s like he’s a complete different person.. I don’t know if it’s my fault? His mom and sister have made it clear they don’t like me and don’t want to accept the fact that I’m part of their family now… they never speak to me… the only reason they tolerate me is because I have a uterus… and they want grand babies/nieces & nephews… I just don’t know what to do or how to fix my issues… any advice?