Any advice please!
i have always dreamed of having a wedding and planning it but now my mom has taken over and it’s miserable…
So my mother is super controlling, I am trying to plan my wedding - and she keeps taking over… she says my Fiance has no say in it and I barely have any say.
Here are a few examples:
my mom does not like my Fiances best friend so she threw a fit about him being a groomsmen, then we moved him to ushering, she threw a fit about that - so now he is not in it at all…
me and my Fiance and our photographer want to do the first look and most of the group photos before the wedding ceremony - my mom is throwing a fit because she don’t want us to see each other all day… and tells me if we do that then we might as well not have a wedding at all…
(My wedding is in my parents yard near their house)
she threw a fit because we can’t walk out the door she wants us to (because of a three foot drop off the sidewalk)
we wanted baked potatoes at the reception - our wedding was at 7 but we changed it to 6 to have potatoes (my mom said a 7 o clock wedding just needs snacks after so move the wedding up or have snacks instead, so we moved it to 6 and she went ahead and decided to have snacks instead of potatoes)
she has gone around telling everyone my fiance is trying to pressure me into things I don’t when in reality he is only pushing for what I want…
she keeps trying to push my fiance out of the decision making and I don’t know what to do… he is getting really upset and wants to tell them how he feels and I just don’t know how to fix anything… she always waits until he isn’t around then tries to manipulate and change my mind about plans me and him have made…
Any advice?
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