The party in Don't be asking

It’s early on a Saturday but I want to write about my experience at the party last night while it’s still fresh in my mind. First, I should say that I’ve pretty much given up on Bike Guy. Maybe if he contacts me I’ll try to set something up with him but I won’t be contacting him again. I enjoyed talking to him and I don’t feel any anger towards him, but it became clear it was never going to happen.

So I got to the party last night around 10:00. I think it started at 9:00 but I didn’t want to be there from the beginning because that felt even more awkward than I was already feeling. When I got there, my friend that hosts the party greeted me at the door and warned me that the party was already going on and I’d be walking into a room that was considered a safe space for a lot of people. She asked if I was sure I was ready for this, and I said yes.

Maybe I’m being dramatic in saying that I feel like when I walked into the house I turned a page in my life and started a new chapter where kinkiness is more important to me. I remember thinking that my husband giving me permission to sleep with other people was a big deal, but in some ways I think going to this party was an even bigger deal.

When I walked in, the first thing I noticed was that I recognized a good portion of the people there. Maybe that shouldn’t have surprised me since I know the host’s circle of friends, but it still did a little bit. And the second thing I noticed was that a lot of the people there were at least partially naked. Even though on some level I was expecting that, I think it still surprised me.

There was a woman seated on the couch that was fully naked. Not someone I knew very well but I definitely recognized her. Off on the other side of the room were two women talking to each other, both wearing only thongs. There was a completely naked man openly touching his erection, seated in a chair casually talking to a woman next to him that was fully clothed. On the couch was a woman dressed in a leather dominatrix outfit. She was someone I knew very well and she came running over to greet me. I was glad I had someone to talk to right away.

It was only after we got back to the couch that I realized her husband (who I also know very well) was completely naked on his knees next to the couch. He was wearing a dog collar attached to a leash that she had been holding. I think seeing her husband naked like that was more awkward to me than all the other nudity since I knew him.

There were maybe 20 people at the party. When I walked in, everyone seemed to be socializing, but eventually other stuff happened. The completely naked woman on the couch started “doing a scene” with a guy. He tied her up in some really fancy complicated knots. I was watching it happen fairly closely, but it was interesting how some people in the room were watching and some people were paying no attention.

He suspended her from the ceiling in rope so she was hanging horizontally at just the right height to suck his dick, and she started doing that. The rules of the party were that oral sex is OK but vaginal and anal not allowed. They discouraged orgasms but they weren’t specifically forbidden. The idea was to have fun with the “scenes” and not necessarily to fuck. I liked that.

I was talking to my friend with her naked husband for a while. We talked about stuff at our jobs and it was interesting to have such a normal conversation with all this going on. At one point she instructed her husband to sit on the floor rather than kneel, and as soon as he was sitting she said, “What do you think of my husband’s dick?”

I’m pretty sure I turned bright red. I said I thought it was nice. It felt weird to say that. She responded, “You don’t think it’s small?” I looked at it more carefully because she was encouraging me to. It was perhaps below average but not small. I shrugged and said, “A little small.” She smiled.

I imagine in hindsight she was trying to humiliate him, but I was too awkward to play along.

Not long after that, I watched the woman who was the host walk past me, get completely naked, bend over, and insert a butt plug. It felt surreal to be experiencing this. Then her husband came up to her wearing a leather vest and nothing else. He had a large erection that was hard not to notice. He started playing with her butt plug and she was moaning loudly.

Again, it was interesting to see how many people in the room were paying no attention to it. She noticed I was one of the people watching and asked if I would come give her a kiss while he played with her ass. That seemed innocent enough so I complied. It was really the only way I participated in anything sexual through the night.

Later I watched two people I didn’t know perform a spanking scene. It wasn’t a fun playful spanking, but a serious hard spanking that left the women bright red and bruised, but she seemed to enjoy it.

My mind was kind of blown when I left around 2 in the morning. I went home and immediately had sex with my husband.

Last updated December 07, 2019