So my ex and I split at the end of November. We were together for three years and I left due to him not showing affection. It was hard (from his words) to express how he feels. Long story. Well, when I told him I was leaving he never fought for me, never called, I guess I thought he would fight for me. He never did. When I came to collect my stuff he told me he loves me but he wants to date other people........I left for good that time.
I found out today he is in a relationship. I know it shouldnt hurt this bad. I mean I have been dating a wonderful man this past month, but I guess the sting is from him saying he wanted to date other people and not focus on something serious. And I find out he is in a serious relationship with someone else. Just hurts. I feel bad for the new guy im dating because im sure it makes him feel insecure than im so upset by it. But, to be fair it has barely been 3 months since I left my ex. I, of course, will still have feelings. But, now I have very strong feelings for the new man in my life.
I kinda want to shut everyone out, close the blinds and just sleep. Not think......just sleep. Does anyone have any advice for me? Should I back away from this new guy I have been dating? Should I just walk away from everything? Ugh. Help!
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