You can never tell what’s actually real. People only put up what they want you to see or what they want you to believe is real. I mean I am just as guilty I don’t want anyone to see what I actually look like on a normal day. Who wants to see some guy lounging in sweats with a pile of books and papers on one side of him and cup and empty plate from that days lunch on the other while watching Midsomer Muders all day…no one. I do however try to post truth I don’t go out of my way to post how happy I am or how sad I am when those aren’t my truths. If I’m happy then you will see that but you will also get my darkness when I’m there.
I think it’s hard when you know people in real life and you know the behind the scenes of their lives. Seeing the posts that go against the texts you’ve received. I have had to unfollow people because I start to find it hard to not say something. I start to think how can you text me or call me crying cause you relationship is so bad or you can’t deal anymore but then post a how great things are and you couldn’t be more happy.
I’m sure there is something wrong with me and my way of thinking or maybe not maybe I’m just over the bullshit that’s become the norm. I want real people in my life people who aren’t afraid to say today sucks and to show those days. How are we suppose to learn that it’s ok to feel our feelings and to feel comfortable expressing them if we keep following this pattern of hiding and only showing what will get us the most likes.
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