Name: Officer Cocksure
Age: 40
Status: Single. Never married. Last relationship about 3 years ago, so he says.
Job: Police Officer
Lives: A neighborhood over - walking distance. Or in his case, bike riding distance
Length of Date: 1.5 hours
We Did: I walked the dog over to a city park and he rode his bike over. We walked & talked. Note he didn’t bring his 3 dogs because he told me it was too hot - plus, he was riding his bike and that would have been difficult.
He Looked: Nearly naked. Okay, look. He’s beyond hot and has a bangin’ body. Super fit, muscular, tan, the whole nine. But being shirtless and zooming around on a fancy bicycle was a tad…well, cocksure. His name is very fitting. I should also mention that he looks absolutely STUNNING in his police uniform (which he was wearing the evening before when we met for the first time in person). It’s hot here, so he even wears the sexy police shorts. I am tingling as I think about them. Yowza. But still…
I Looked: Like I was ready to work out - kind of like the evening before when I met him - yoga-type cropped leggings, a cute strappy bralet under a form fitting tank and my bright red running shoes that I love.
First Impression: He’s hot. Too hot for me. Or actually, maybe a little too cocky for me. I feel like I could fling with this one, but not so sure about a whole lot more. But again, we’ve only met twice and those meetings were pretty brief.
Convo: He’s definitely smart and beyond self-assured. Almost to the point of being argumentative. Our conversation flowed, but it was not without moments of tenseness when he disagreed with some things that I said. And I couldn’t really get anywhere with my questions about why he was on Bumble (he said he wasn’t sure because he doesn’t date???) and questions about his last relationship (didn’t want to talk about it). So I flat out asked him if he was looking for a hookup or a fling. Again, he was elusive. He told me he was looking for someone “different from the normal, typical person” - which could mean nearly anything. And the weirdest thing was, we walked past several eating and drinking establishments and he told me that he hated going out to eat and absolutely despised sitting in bars, drinking. So then I asked him how he could possibly date and get to know someone and he said, “just like this.” I mean, I really loved walking and talking (he actually rode his bike alongside me while I walked the dog), but I also like sitting in a nice restaurant, cafe or bar and just talking. I’m confused by this.
High Point: When he and my dog snuggled a bit - and our conversations about our dogs and fitness - even though they got intense.
Low Point: I don’t know. He’s very different and seems like he could be argumentative. Can’t really say there was a specific point that was low.
How It Ended: It was abrupt. As it started to get dark he told me that he needed to go and grab a bite (why couldn’t WE eat something together?) and walk his dogs.
Chances Are: I have a strong feeling that we’ll at least go for another walk together. There’s nothing wrong with walking together - I quite like that. But I don’t think we’ll be dating if he refuses to sit in a restaurant or bar with me.
Date Rating: B-
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