Hi Guys!
It’s like 8:30 and I’m going to write a quick entry and then go to sleepity sleep in order to start my work week right! Remember last entry when I wrote about driving to work on Friday with the top down, listening to happy music and letting my hair blow in the wind? Well, I kind of kept up that attitude all weekend long and it felt really good. On top of that, I got a lot of sleep and THAT felt really good, AND I worked out like a motherfucker and THAT felt amazing as well! Since I’m batting 1000, I may as well just keep it rolling.
What I did NOT do this weekend was drink or go on any dates or even go out with girlfreinds, so I’m not sure what that says. I also didn’t get any cleaning or organizing done, so that’s a bummer…but hey - I did get some good shut eye! Ha.
On Friday after work, I hung out with TMG (or, Text Message Guy - from a lifetime ago…). I went to his semi-new apartment and made a Hello Fresh meal with him for dinner. Do you know Hello Fresh? It’s one of those delivery meal kits that includes all of the ingredients you need for a meal for 2, but you have to do all of the prep, cook, cleanup, etc.
It was fun, but I quickly realized that he is just learning how to cook. That’s fine - great even - but I found myself giving him instructions that were a tad bit grumpy because everything was taking FOR. EV. ER and I didn’t want to eat so late! And then he kept pouring TONS of oil in the skillet, which made me cringe, so I took over a lot of the cooking part. He laughed at me and decided that I was grumpy because I was so hungry, but that’s truly not the case. I just didn’t want so much OIL IN MY FOOD!
Guess what? It turned out delicious. And it was a blast cooking with him.
We laughed like old times, but I also remembered a lot of why our friendship sort of faded away… there are some things about him that we don’t see eye to eye on from a moral standpoint. Like, he likes to do things the super easy way and if that means cheating a bit, he’ll do it. I can’t give you specifics from Friday’s hang out, but if you read me a million years ago, you might remember me writing about how he once parked in a handicapped spot to avoid having to park waaaaay out and walking to an event.
Bottom line is, I don’t think I want to rekindle this friendship. Sure, he rescued me during a really difficult time in my life and did so many wonderful things for me. Now he’s sort of going through some things and I don’t think I can be the person he can lean on. I really don’t.
And seriously, I know he had ulterior motives back then. So I don’t feel guilty not being more of a support to him right now. I think going to his place on Friday was a nice thing. I enjoyed myself, but I don’t think I’ll be doing it again.
Today was Mother’s Day. The Dog Date Dude (aka Triple D) used a photo of me and my dog, Martini as his Mother’s Day tribute on Instagram first thing this morning and it gave me a little thrill, but I also know that he’s not into going out with me, so whatever. I was flattered, though.
I went to see my mom today, and we had a nice brunch/lunch with the whole family (mom, dad, bro, SIL, niece…and my dog!). Went to this brand new spot in their little town. Turns out, it’s owned by a guy who lives down the street from me. We are neighbors! He also owned a hip coffee spot in the area, but I guess this is his new thing.
The restaurant is a very cool concept. it’s at their town’s tiny, tiny airport (really, it’s just a landing strip), and the new owner is taking flying lessons. His goal is to do weekend dinner packages that include a sightseeing flight over the lake where they live. He is also going to add on a “dance pad” for after dinner dancing and shenanigans. I LOVE the idea, but wonder if it’s not too lofty…no pun intended. I hope it works out. If it does, I may visit Mom and Pops more often. There’s not a lot of cool places in their little lake neighborhood, though I hope that’s changing.
Anyway. Lovely Mother’s Day indeed.
I think I may have created a monster with Bachelor Party Marty. Now he wants to see me in New York when I’m there next month. Long story, but he’s texting me several times a day - every day… and the sexts are getting increasingly dirtier and dirtier. He’s including his face in many dick pics. It’s pretty crazy. And the thing is, most of the time I like it. I’m flattered that this hot guy is so into me…but every once in a while, I think….this is getting weird.
He’s in New York right now. Was in the city over the weekend (friends live there), and is staying on Long Island during the week (his brother lives there), and has decided that he will come visit me when I’m in Manhattan in mid-June.
On one hand, I think it could be super sexy. On the other, I really don’t want him to interfere with my long weekend. It’s a girls thing on Saturday and the rest of the time is a ME thing. I know I can do whatever I want and if that means banging a hot young 30-something, then that’s my prerogative, but what if that keeps me from meeting someone who could actually be relationship material? Not that I think I’ll meet some great dude during a long weekend in New York City, but you never know, right?
And to add a cherry to the top of this potential SEX SUNDAE, Bach Party Marty says he has another girl who wants to join us!!
And that actually turned me just about completely off to this scenario….until there’s just a twinge of curiosity…which there is!!!
What? I know! I actually found myself wondering what she looks like and acts like!
Sheesh.
Okay.
I need to go to bed now. It was a pretty good weekend, but all good things must come to an end - including this entry.
G’nite.
xox,
GS
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