Being alone. in Single life
- Jan. 10, 2018, 4:07 p.m.
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So where do I start?
Being single isn’t too bad, you can do what you like go where you like and do not have to consult with anyone, you can make decisions alone it’s also peaceful.
But when the time comes and your invited to events/nights out with your pals and there all coupled up… not so nice.
Spending weekends alone.
Eating alone.
Going to bed alone.
Yes ok it’s fucking shit!
I have came to the conclusion that every or most humans are all searching for the same thing.. LOVE wether it be to love someone or to feel loved. Ok the majority of us have family’s that love us… but it’s not the same as being with someone.
Someone to share your life with. A best friend someone who loves you and respects you for who you are. Dosnt seem much to ask for does it? But in reality it’s so hard to find! And how do you know they truly love you?
I’m not a loner.. I have great family and friends but something is missing… it’s been along time since I actually loved someone, when I see my friends arguing with there partners etc I think to my self I would love to argue with someone I loved right now, how pathetic!
To be honest I don’t even know where I’m going with this entry just something I think about a lot!!
Hippychick123 ⋅ January 12, 2018
I’m really sorry to hear about your husband :( I think in time you will get used to being alone. And some parts of me enjoy it! I do enjoy the peace and quiet, but it’s too quiet, the little things I want the most, sharing your day with someone, little exciting things that happen I want to share them, I just want someone to understand me and know me as me. Living alone has its perks. But as for your situation I can imagine how alien it seems after sharing everything with someone for so long, I would love to reach out and hug you back!! I feel so alone sometimes I feel like the world is passing by me, and I’m just stuck here alone. I have faith that I will meet Someone i hang on to that a lot.