After a couple years together now, my relationship with Sarah seems to have hit a rough patch. That’s probably too strong of a word. Things aren’t bad between us, but things have started to feel stagnant and boring at times.
Whenever we’d talk about it, Sarah always goes back to the same thing: we don’t have enough sex. We have sex about weekly. Maybe more like every 10 days. That seems about right to me, I admit. We had more sex at the beginning of our relationship, but isn’t that normal?
Last week she came up with the idea of having a sex schedule. I know the big argument against this is that it kills the spontaneity and romance of sex, but I was open to trying it.
And our agreement was to schedule daily sex, which made it more interesting yet complicated.
I told her to create a schedule and then I would suggest changes if I felt any were needed, so this is what she came up with for next week:
Monday - 45 minutes of sex consisting of 30 minutes of oral foreplay and 15 minutes of vaginal intercourse.
Tuesday - 30 minutes alternating between oral sex and rimjob.
Wednesday - 30 minutes with 10 oral, 10 vaginal intercourse, 10 anal intercourse.
Thursday - 15 minutes oral
Friday - 30 minutes with 15 oral and 15 vaginal
Saturday - 60 minutes with 30 minutes oral, 15 minutes blowjob, 15 minutes vaginal intercourse
Sunday - same as Saturday
My first thought when I read this was for her to explain “oral” since I originally thought oral would mean both of us, but then saw the distinction of “blowjob” on the weekend. She confirmed that oral meant me giving her oral sex, not receiving.
As I started to question therefore the lack of blowjobs during the week, she emphasized that she wrote this as the dominant partner and that it was focused on her pleasure. That explanation turned me on and actually made me suggest perhaps even less time be scheduled for blowjobs, since that activity focused on my pleasure.
She suggested either decreasing blowjob time from 15 minutes to 5 or 10, or making it just Saturday OR Sunday instead of both days. Then I said, mostly joking, “Or eliminating it completely.”
She responded, “Done. No blowjobs. We’ll use that 15 minutes for you to give me rimjobs instead.”
Then I asked when I get to cum. She pointed out that if I was cumming daily I most likely wouldn’t be able to perform daily, which is unfortunately true. So she said I could cum only at the end of intercourse. That means Monday, Wednesday, Saturday, Sunday. That seems reasonable.
Then I went back to blowjobs. I suggested one 10 minute blowjob only on Sunday and she agreed.
So we’re going to try this starting Monday and see what happens.
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