Met with my lawyer for what feels like the millionth time to go over yet another set of separation agreement changes.
The original plan was, I kept my 401k and Chris got the first chunk of money from the sale of the house to make up for it. And that benefitted him because it was cash versus retirement money. But he couldn't understand that if the house didn't make money, he still had to pay some of his money as a result of that. He thought he should get his money free and clear and I should pay for any loss on the house. Which wouldn't be fair. I should have to pay around $40k more than him to keep things equal, but I wasn't taking on the full hit of a loss. He refused to concede. So I told him I'd be filing for a divorce if this wasn't resolved my way because I refused to be taken advantage of like that.
So he decided instead of that, we'd just split everything down the middle. Which means I get to keep more of the cash and get more money from the house sale, but he gets about $25k of my 401k. Which I really didn't want to have happen, but oh well.
On an obvious note…Open Diary is going down. I'm not staying here at PB for long, it's just a layover until I find a more permanent spot (maybe my own website?), but it's going to be a longer layover than I thought. I'm trying to download my diary, but the site is crashing and I can't seem to do it. Ugh.
I want to cry at the loss.
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