Grand Canyon Family Trip 2016, Part Four in Travels with ConnieK

  • Sept. 9, 2016, 10:23 a.m.
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In the afternoon, we visited the Planes of Fame air museum. The museum has 150+ aircraft displays and is a walk through history. The members hold periodic air shows (1st Saturday of each month) and members can enter a raffle for a chance to fly in a vintage plane.

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(That’s my youngest…he has his pilot’s license and loved this place)

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(My eldest and his girl)

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Looks like Jeb found a new job after his unsuccessful run for President:

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Mohammed Ali flew on this plane:

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After that, we toured the rest of the west rim, including Hermit’s Rest.

Duck Rock. It’s supposed to look like a duck. I can see it, my husband, not so much. See that vertical crack in the rock ledge underneath? ALL the rock cliffs look like that from the side. Only you can’t see it when you’re actually ON the cliff, unless it has split all the way through. The weather had turned cold (in late August!) and as I sat in the car waiting for my sons to be done with exploring, I look up to see my youngest backing up on a cliff very much like the one under the duck rock so that eldest could take his picture. They were too far away for me to yell, but I watched my son backing up on a cracked cliff that hung over an abyss. Keep in mind that it’s been about a year and a half since we lost Nick to thyroid disease. Even my youngest commented that the rock looked dangerous when you looked at it from the car’s angle:

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The Colorado River is constantly cutting deeper into the Grand Canyon, absorbing smaller tributaries, eroding softer rock layers, undermining harder layers. The river’s power fluctuates with the season and over time. At the end of the last Ice Age (12,000 years ago), the river is estimated to have had ten times the force it has today:

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We returned to the hotel and I did a load of laundry. As I was putting clothing away, I felt something in a side pocket of our suitcase. It was Nick’s last paycheck. I’d told his cousin to keep it, but he slipped the cash into the suitcase at some point, I guess. We cried buckets. I’d been missing him that day, wishing he was with us. I’d asked God for a sign and saw a half rainbow of almost glowing colors and had thought maybe that was his stairway to heaven, but the paycheck was also a sign. I truly believe they stay nearby and only the veil of death keeps us from seeing those we loved. I gave some of it to the kids to gamble in Las Vegas and donated the rest.

I look forward to sharing my next entry. It will appear in a magazine in November. Oh, and I got word that I have my own column in the magazine!!!!


Flyte September 09, 2016

Enjoyed the pics! And finding the paycheck was amazing. yep, Nick was definitely with yall.

ConnieK Flyte ⋅ September 09, 2016

Thanks, Flyte. I think so, too. :)

GypsyWynd September 09, 2016

Nick is still with you. I truly believe that. Congratulations on the magazine article and column. You'll have to tell us when it comes out.
Those canyon photos are stunning.
Mom walked out of the kitchen yesterday and said, out of the clear blue, "I can't get over how much bigger it feels and how much brighter." Yup, you done good. :-)

ConnieK GypsyWynd ⋅ September 09, 2016

I'm happy that she's happy. It's hard to keep our own personal taste out of it, but I think the guys delivered exactly what she wanted. I'm surious, though, how are those bells & whistles really working out? Are you still happy with them or do you think they didn't live up to expectation? For instance, is the mixer stand easy to operate, does the lazy susan work as expected? Etc.
My NEXT series of canyon photos is gonna blow your mind.
OF COURSE I'll be letting everyone know when the magazine debuts! The owner is thinking November 2016. :)

GypsyWynd ConnieK ⋅ September 09, 2016

The mixer stand is easy to use. Mom still won't use the new mixer, but that's her choice. The kidney-shaped pull out where we put all (yes, ALL!!) our pots & pans is an absolute godsend. If I had to pick only one 'extra' in the kitchen, that would probably top my list, if only because we use it multiple times a day. The pull out drawers (all the Corningware and mixing bowls) are another much used and much appreciated feature. To be honest, we use ALL the bells & whistles.....I can't think of a single one that I'd say "Oh well, we could've done without that". They have all made the kitchen so much more accessible and functional. The pull down in the upper cabinet is probably used the least.....but that's because we put stuff we don't use every single day in there and we can reach the bottom shelf without pulling it down.

ConnieK GypsyWynd ⋅ September 09, 2016

Thanks. A friend wants us to redo her kitchen after seeing the modifications we did for you and I thought your input would be valuable to her.

GypsyWynd ConnieK ⋅ September 09, 2016

Happy to help. If she has corner cabinets, lazy susans are a definite plus.

Eriu September 09, 2016

How exciting! Definitely Nick was there. I who have been questioning my faith since Raymond died still have buckets of it - I notice signs, too, and know when he's around.

ConnieK Eriu ⋅ September 09, 2016

When (if?) I finish this series, I intend to write about the Havasupai. I'll be interested in hearing your thoughts. It was a very spiritual place.

I thought my faith would be shaken when Nick died. Instead, it grew stronger. No logic to it, but faith is trust in that which is unseen.

woman in the moon September 11, 2016

I'm glad your writing is going well.
Thanks so much for your entries here.
So sad about your son, and yes he will always be with you.

ConnieK woman in the moon ⋅ September 11, 2016

Thanks. You know how long it has taken. :) My heart hurts for Nick, but I do believe he is cheering us on. The heart mends slowly.

middle age pearl September 11, 2016

Ok, I STILL have goose bumps after reading about the rainbow AND the check. A sign from above for sure!! Awesome!

ConnieK middle age pearl ⋅ September 11, 2016

And it was a half rainbow, coming out of the clouds. I know it was atmospheric light bending, but the colors were almost glowing, not in a supernatural-cue-in-twilight-zone-music kind of way, but just really vivid. That may be unique to that area. Our rainbows tend to be muted in color, but we are not a desert environment.
I'd asked for a sign that day. My heart was heavy but I wasn't letting the kids see, just my husband. I'd kind of taken the rainbow as my sign, but the paycheck was as clear as it gets.

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