We made an interesting change in our arrangement this week. Not a major difference, but worth pointing out. After a few experiences over the last several months where we were all three of us playing in the same bed and then falling asleep together, we have decided that we want to start all sharing the same bed every night. The king size bed is big enough for three of us, and our relationship really has started to evolve into a polyamorous threesome, it feels right to all sleep together.
Our previous arrangement was that Liz and I slept together and my wife slept separately in her own room. She is now moving back in.
We’ve also made it clear to each of us that even though we are all sharing the same bed, any two of us can ask for a little privacy if we want some one-on-one time. Threesomes are actually fairly uncommon for us, happening maybe once every few months. But Liz and I have sex about twice a week, Liz and my wife have sex about once a week, and I have sex with my wife a little less often, maybe once every 10 days. These aren’t strict rules or anything, just the way it seems to play out.
In other news, we were talking about how I have made a public commitment with my wife, and I have also made one with Liz, but at no point have the two of them made any sort of commitment. We don’t think it’s a huge deal really, since we know how we feel and what we have, but the fact that it’s a glaring missing piece does stand out a little bit.
I’m completely comfortable saying that Liz and my wife love each other. We might plan something for the two of them. We might instead just plan a simple three-way commitment ceremony.
And although things may seem to sound like they are becoming very equal between us, I want to clarify that my wife is still very much the sub partner. It’s a role she falls into very well by her own personality and all-around submissiveness, and Liz and I have become very comfortable in dominating her in both sexual and non-sexual ways.
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