Things have settled into a normal routine at home, even though most people would say that our home life is anything but normal. The three of us aren’t quite all equal partners, and I don’t think that is really ever going to change. My wife is a sub with two doms, and she’s learned to respect that both Liz and I have authority and she is obedient to us.
There are cases when she will ask me permission for something and I will say yes, but tell her to also check with Liz. Then Liz will say no. I like that she respects that she needs permission from both of us.
Although we will both be disciplinarians as necessary, Liz has ended up being much more strict with her than I am. I have found myself saying things like, “Just wait until Liz gets home and I tell her what you did,” and it feels almost like I am being parental.
One of the rules we enforce is that if a bathroom door is shut completely, it means that you do not walk in. Since we all have sex with each other individually, the idea of respecting each other’s sexual privacy is important to us. So a few weeks ago my wife walks into the bathroom while Liz and I are having sex in the shower. It was a clear violation of the rule because we had the door completely shut. I proceeded to take her into the bedroom and reprimand her and punish her, and the moment I was done Liz went in and punished her a second time.
It’s also worth pointing out that Liz has a boyfriend that she hooks up with regularly. She does actually refer to him as her “boyfriend” and he’s been to our place and is a nice guy. I also occasionally find other partners. But my wife is not allowed to be with anyone other than Liz and me.
I really appreciate that even though we have a commitment between the three of us, we have not stopped being polyamorous. I have zero problem whatsoever with Liz having another man in her life.
Although we spend a lot of time together now all three of us, we have agreed that at least twice a year Liz and I will travel just the two of us. And my wife, who has a much bigger income than Liz or I, will pay completely for the trip.
We respect that our workplaces don’t always understand the nature of our relationship, and it often comes up this time of year with company Christmas parties. At my company, I took Liz and introduced her to everyone as my wife, without making any mention of my other wife at home. At my wife’s party, I stayed home and she went with Liz. Although her sexuality is very fluid, she prefers men, so it’s interesting that she basically tells her coworkers that she’s in a lesbian relationship.
But Liz’s company is much more progressive about these things, and all three of us went to her party. She introduced us as proudly as having both a husband and a wife and no one seemed bothered at all by it.
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