As I was laying down tonight to go to sleep an image popped in my mind. Twiddle Dee and Twiddle Dum. That was my experience of my unemployment hearing yesterday morning. As I replay the way those two acted yesterday I wish I would have made my final question to them.....Are you finished making a mockery of this hearing with you bogus accusations?
I am kind of proud of myself for the way I acted. Didn’t let them get to me one bit. If anything I was thanking the universe for giving me the information on what these guys have to go on and it was all lies.
I spoke with my attorney today and I will be making a call to the EEOC Monday morning to make an appointment to file a federal investigation against the owner and the company for sexual harassment. The funny thing is this could have been settled the day after I quit with a simple apologetic phone call and a signed legal agreement with stipulations of no more sexual harassment. Not sure what he was thinking. I guess he thought son in law was going to come and save the day and take me down.
I’ve always been good at making business decisions and most of the time kept the owner in check when it came to making a bad one. This time he put the company in the hands of his son in law. The owner doesn’t know how to run a company and it was obvious within a week of him bringing him in how this was going to go.
See ego to me is one of the worse enemies a person can have. The son in law has a big ego. He tried to use his ego yesterday to intimidate me. When a person can see through what someone is doing, it is a lot easier to deal with. As he started to question me yesterday he sat up straight in his chair, with his back arched and his head held high. Ego all the way. He thought he was going to throw me for a loop with his questions, but instead I just let him ramble away with his false accusations. He shook his head like a little child, like yep she did this. The owner of the company just kept saying I don’t remember when I asked him questions.
Twiddle Dee and Twiddle Dum is all I can say. Wonder what strategy they are working on today. Yesterdays was definitely a fear based strategy with a twist of incompetence.
My strategy is the truth and nothing but the whole truth while keeping anger out of my heart and balance in the brain. You can’t manipulate me any longer, I don’t work for you!
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