The tale of a girl who isn't me. I have a very good friend who is in deep with this new girl. It is hard to get good perspective and make good judgement on what kind of reality is really occurring but lets start with some facts.
My friend has this last year been though a recent trauma of losing a key family members lost and gained 2+ jobs ended a long term relationship with an unmotivated partner who cheated physically and emotionally.
New Girl is also going though a major life transition 9 year relationship which she has been in since she was 19 New girl is still talking with other potential people.....to date and isn't ready to commit New girl can't drive across state to spend time with my friend ( crappy car)
Pros. New Girl is..... she's way cuter than the last one ( well I think anyway) New girl is motivated, and can hold down a job ( I think) New Girl is a "dreamboat" / has all the moves says the right things New girl seems concerned about what "we" think about her. ( we = my friends friends)
I guess my advice to my friend is to stick with it for now. I think that if you had waited to meet her that she would have been ready enough to date around/ other people, and if she is the one you want letting her see what is out there and decide on you might be an OK thing to do, but .... painful. I think that if I were going to do this I'd .... not date her until she is ready for actual dating. She can either party around or Have you, but I don't really believe in open dating. If she wants you let her chooose to be with you......... unless you are afraid she won't want you after all..... I might even sent a 2 month time frame and see if she feels that is reasonable.... then again..... idk. BLEH! I have no good insight. Fin.......
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