With Thanksgiving coming up, and knowing how Labor Day weekend played out, I asked my husband this week to decide what should happen for this four-day weekend. I gave him three options: 1) just like Labor Day weekend, I would spend the weekend with him if he could choose something interesting for us to do, 2) I would spend the weekend with Liz and he would pay for whatever we come up with, and 3) we could do something all three of us.
Last night he told me his decision. He chose option three, which I think was probably my favorite too. He suggested we make a nice meal together on Thursday and then leave to go somewhere Thursday night through Sunday. I like the way he is thinking. I told him that I would like to more things that involve all three of us, and he happily agreed. I think we’re finally getting to the point where I feel like I have one relationship that involves both of them, instead of two separate relationships.
Contributing to that is the way that my husband and Liz interact. Every time I hear them say “I love you” to each other, it makes me happy. And at first they were just hugging when they would see each other, but that has progressed to kissing. I don’t expect that they would ever have sex, largely because my husband isn’t attracted to women, but I’ve wondered how I would feel if it ever happened and I think I’d be OK with it.
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