My husband’s office Christmas party was last weekend, and he went with Liz. They decided to get a room in the hotel together after the party, and it was an exciting moment in our polyamorous relationship since it was the first time they would be spending the night together. I had told them both that I was OK with them having sex, but neither had committed to the idea when they left to go to the party.
It’s hard to really describe the relationship between them. They are the non-sexual partners in this. I sleep with both of them, but the three of us are all committed to each other. My husband loves Liz and she loves him. It’s a romantic love, not just friendly. I believe my husband feel that same emotion for Liz that I do, even though he’s not physically attracted to women.
The idea of them having sex has come up before, largely because Liz believes (and I agree) that a physical expression of their love would be a good thing. It wouldn’t change the dynamic of our relationship at all, and I would never expect that they would have sex regularly.
So after the party they went back to their room and crawled into bed together. They got naked and cuddled. They slept together and Liz told me the last thing before they closed their eyes and fell asleep was a passionate kiss and then each saying that they love each other.
In the morning she texted me to tell me they had a wonderful night together but no sex. I was partially happy and partially disappointed.
When Liz got home, she told me that had showered together before leaving the hotel and had passionately made out while naked together in the shower. She told me how badly she wanted to have sex with him and seemed disappointed that it hadn’t gone any further. I suspect it will eventually.
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