I put my mother in a psych unit because she was being irrational confrontational and thought the hitting me was a good idea instead fighting with her I decided a psychological evaluation was what was needed. And I decided to get her psychologically analyzed to see if her schizoaffective is getting worse. It us much worse She has been demanding me to get her vehicle fixed but at his current time I don't believe she is safe to drive. She keeps telling me that I need to put it in the shop and pay to get it fixed but her accounts are in the negatives and I don't see the point of running her accounts into the negatives more. The mechanic is talking about putting the vehicle and impound and mom told him to do it only for her to turn around the next day and tell him to put it in the shop. He said he won't put it in the shop until he sees money I don't blame him. I'm not going to put the vehicle in the shop and tell the judge finds out whether I'm going to have guardianship and custodian ship. I want to be sure the rules before I start doing things. I dont need in trouble with the law.
My mom wanted me to come by visitation today but due to the fact that nobody under the age of 18 is allowed to visit the hospital where she is and I didn't have a babysitter I ended up staying home. My car also does not have a blower to blow the warm air around. I have been keeping my son home until we can get the blower fixed because I don't want him to get cold. My mom is very upset and she has been threatening me. She says she's going to make me regret my life she says she's going to cut me off financially and when she thought that she was going to use the power bill and the rent as a form of manipulation she didn't anticipate the fact that we already paid it. She keeps telling me that she's going to move out and there's nothing I can do or say.
Little does she know the psychiatrist says that she is no longer able to take care of herself due to her psychological state and it is degenerating as we go. If she wants to stay out of a nursing home she'll have to stay with me so I can care for her. My brother doesn't want to deal with it and everybody else says that she's not their problem.
My mom at somebody at the psych unit and has decided that she wants to move them into a trailer that has not been repaired. There's no floors no power no water no sewer but she has decided to her and this woman is going to live together. She also met her ex-boyfriend Larry that she dated when she was a teenager did I mention my mother's and her seventies? Mom has decided that she's going to pay him $200 to fix the bathroom even though I do not know this man nor do I trust him. Mom says she would like to start a new relationship with Larry once again I understand that she's lonely but she might be rushing things.
Tomorrow I am turning in the paperwork from the doctor who evaluated my mother's psychologically. I'm turning it in with some paperwork and the judge is going to decide whether Mom is going to a nursing home or what exactly is going to happen to her. I don't want to put her in a nursing home that is my last thing I want to do but I really don't know if she is going to continue being violent. I've been trying to take care of her to the best of my ability but she makes it difficult. If I try to do anything to benefit her she fights me every step of the way. I guess it's because I give her what she needs and not what she wants.
Today I have been at home taking care of my son he has been really good and while he watches Miss Rachel I'm hoping that I'll get lucky and I'll be able to do the laundry. I don't regret my son I am grateful every single day for him. He's the only child I'll probably ever have I got fixed after a really hard pregnancy. I was hoping to adopt a little girl but I can barely afford to survive right now. Someday it will get better but all I have to do is try.
I know my mom doesn't appreciate everything I'm doing for her. She sees what I'm doing as an inconvenience to her. I'm concerned for the safety of my family as well as my son due to her psychological state. I didn't know what to do except for send her to get psychiatric help. I guess we'll see if this gets any better I really am trying to keep her out of nursing home. I know you don't see it right now Mom but I really do love you. I wouldn't fight so hard for you if I didn't love you.
Loading comments...