Yeah you heard that right!
Straight up called me fat to my face, so back story. my partner is 60 somthing kgs and im over 100 kgs due to medical reasons that i encountered when i was 6 years old so i went on and injection that would stop my symptoms and a side effect was weight gain and once i got to a point that i could go off of it it was to late, now i was a very active child, i was on my schools rugby team and a soccer team outside of school for years and was and still am inlove with veggies and all the good foods however the extreme weight gain led me to PCOS - common hormonal disorder that affects women, characterized by irregular periods, excess androgens (male hormones), and/or polycystic ovaries. so i struggle to fall pregnant and lose weight and im on a weight lose gpl 1 medication to help on top of going to the gym almost daily.
i was talking to my partner about his new car that he bought off my parents and she all wheel drive but she struggles in the rain and we were about to go for a drive and he made a "joke" about how id have to sit in the back middle seat and i asked why he goes "so it evens out the weight" i instantly broke down in tears because he knows how hard im trying to better myself and how i have been for years but life and family and work were always in the way we then went on the drive and came home and he instantly went home didnt say bye, didnt kiss me goodbye nothing, sat in my driveway texting me asking if i was coming outside to say goodbye even thought he was the one that walked away from me and saw me go inside. i assumed he didn't want a hug and kiss goodbye seems as he went and SAT in the car. Now he's all on about are you okay are you good like he knew his "joke" upset me but doesn't want to think about how it made me feel.
am i over reacting? or is this a vaild reason to be upset idek anymore.
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