Sometimes, I wonder what is right and what is wrong. I talk to different people, and each of them says the same thing from their own perspective - and it feels right in their own way. Both sides sound convincing. That makes me question why most of us fail to see things from the other person’s point of view. To be honest, I’m also one of them. I fail to see things from others’ perspectives sometimes.
But what bothers me is that even when I try to understand their side, no one seems ready to look at mine. I think we all let emotions take over before reason - and that’s not really our fault. That’s just being human. We aren’t therapists who can always understand what’s running through someone else’s mind. Even as a certified people pleaser, I sometimes fail to see other people’s emotions.
Sometimes, I just want someone to listen to my random thoughts and rants, but I literally have no one I feel comfortable enough with to share them. The only person I was comfortable with was my ex ...... but he moved on faster than the speed of light after our breakup. I’m tired and exhausted from holding on to the hope that one day he’ll come back and tell me how much he loves me. To be honest, I’m tired, and I think that hope is complete foolishness. I don’t think he’s ever coming back, and all the love I had for him over the years feels like a waste of time now. I’ve reached the point where I’m exhausted from thinking about all the impossible “what ifs” related to him. He’s moved on, and I need to accept that. I think it’s time I give myself some rest.
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