My sister and I have had a non-sexual dom/sub relationship many years. I’m not sure if that’s weird or not.
She is three years older than me, but for some reason always seemed like an adult to me, even when we were kids. Growing up, she was my afternoon babysitter everyday because our mom worked. Because of that, she had some authority over me, with my mom’s approval, to enforce certain rules. For example, I couldn’t play video games or do things with my friends until I had all my homework done, and it was always my sister who had to check and verify that and give me permission to do things.
For a while, if I did something wrong while my sister was babysitting me, she would just tell our mom when she got home and I’d get punished by my mom. But after a while, my sister decided to just cut my mom out the equation and punish me herself. Her punishments were always just the typical punishments I would have gotten form my mom anyway, and I didn’t think it was a big deal to be getting them from my sister. I obeyed her like I would have obeyed my mom.
Without realizing it, by obeying her like that I was really feeding into her dominant personality. And also without realizing it, I was discovering my own submissiveness.
I remember the day that it changed. We were watching TV together on a Saturday morning and we started arguing about what to watch. My mother was home and this wasn’t a babysitting situation. After I argued with her a little bit, she told me to go to my room. I laughed it off at first, but she gave me a serious look and said that she wasn’t joking. She repeated that I should go to my room and that she could come up later to tell me my punishment.
As I obeyed her and went to my room, I don’t think I realized at that point that I was opening the door to a whole new set of rules and punishments from her. Now suddenly she could just punish me for whatever she wanted.
Things definitely changed after that.
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