Primary in Therapy

  • Sept. 17, 2014, 12:18 a.m.
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We ended up forcing an issue that I had been delaying having to deal with this week. I blame the weather. It’s been extremely hot here for the last several days. The house I share with my husband has air conditioning, but Liz’s place does not. So I did the only reasonable thing and asked if Liz wanted to spend these hot nights in the guest room.

There was something nice about us all hanging out at home that first night. It felt good. As the evening got later, my husband headed to bed. He goes to bed early because he usually gets up early for work. Liz and I stayed up watching TV.

He kissed me goodnight and told me he loves me. Then he turned to Liz and said goodnight and also told her that he loves her. Liz asked for a kiss, and they exchanged a brief peck on the lips. I really do feel like the three of us genuinely all love each other, and it’s a nice feeling.

I had already made the decision that I would be sleeping with Liz, but I hadn’t told my husband that. So a few minutes after he went to bed, I went into the bedroom to tell him.

After I said it, he asked if it was because I love Liz more than I love him. I assured him that isn’t the case. Then I said that I do consider Liz my primary partner. I really didn’t know what reaction to expect. I admit I was a little nervous.

He responds immediately that he is the submissive one and he wants to be secondary to Liz. I showed my surprise, and he said, “Of course she comes first. She’s a woman.”


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