Liz, my husband, and I went out to dinner last night. I really like the idea of the three of us hanging out together, and last night was a lot of fun. On the drive to the restaurant, Liz commented that since she is a dominant woman and I am a dominant man, my husband should be submissive to both of us. I think my husband has really already shown a good amount of submissiveness to Liz, but it was nice to hear her say it openly like that and for us all to agree.
Then when we were in the restaurant, the waitress took out orders starting with Liz, and she ordered for my husband. It is something that I sometimes do and it was hot and fun to have Liz do it. Especially since I know my husband well enough to order things that I know he will like, but Liz actually ordered something for him that I wasn’t sure he would be happy about. But as soon as the waitress left the table, he turned to Liz and thanked her for ordering his dinner.
After dinner, we stopped and dropped my husband off and then Liz and I went back to her place. As my husband got out of the car, he said goodnight to me and told me he loves me. Then he went to Liz’s side of the car and said the same to her.
Liz responded with, “We both love you.”
Once we were alone, I asked the question I had been wanting to ask for a while but had been waiting for the right time. I asked Liz if she really loved my husband. Without any hesitation she said, “I love him very much. He’s a non-sexual part of my relationship with you. I think us loving each other is very important.”
I told her how great I thought that was and that I really enjoyed how their relationship was progressing.
I was nervous to ask the next question, but I blurted it out: “How would you feel about the three of us living together?”
After a pause, Liz responded with her own question. She asked if I would have a bedroom with her and a bedroom with my husband. I had thought about this myself, so I answered the way I have been thinking. I told her that I would have a bedroom with her where I would sleep every night. And my husband would have a separate bedroom.
At one point I had imagined a relationship where I did not have a primary and secondary lover, but that both of them were equal. The truth is that Liz has become my primary lover. We haven’t come right out and said it, but I think it’s obvious to all of us. Liz and I have sex every time we are together. Literally three of four nights a week we have sex. And on weekends sometimes, multiple times in a day. Sex with my husband is probably about twice a month.
Although we didn’t officially agree on anything, we talked about the possibility of us all moving into one place when Liz and I get married.
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