So my wife came home yesterday from a day of shopping with Liz and talked to me a bit about all the things she bought. Then she says she wants to talk to me about something else. I’m curious, of course. She goes on to say that after a day of talking with Liz about gender identity, she no longer believes that she should be identifying as a woman. She said she is still trying to come to terms with her feelings, but she is pretty sure she is a gay man who likes to dress like a woman.
So I asked if I should start referring to her as my husband again, and he said yes. We talked for a while about it and he said he wants to continue to dress in women’s clothes, but he does not want to be female. He said he was pretty proud of her courage to come out as gay and he didn’t want to pretend to be a woman.
I am happy for him. I understand gender confusion probably better than most people, and I know that it can be a big decision. After I realized for myself that I am trans, I really struggled with it and wanted to be sure before I said anything to anyone else.
I texted Liz to see if she could fill me in on what they talked about. She said they talked a lot about dominance and submission, and female supremacy. Female supremacy is a subject that we have talked quite a bit about, and apparently it’s something that my husband strongly believes in. He wants to worship females, not be one.
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