So damn annoying! Birdie has been harping and harping on me about getting BK off the bottle and totally potty trained before HC arrives. The problem is I am in a shit load of pain from the whole pelvic bone separating and HC being sooo damn big and still so very active. (I actually fear he may crack one of my ribs when he's in his crazy kick fest moments.) The other day I was laying in bed talking to Hubby and HC was thumping the mattress through my belly. Hubby was like "WHAT THE HELL! DOES THAT HURT?" When he gets hiccups I feel them against my butt bone and all the way up into my rib cage. So the thought of not only forcing him to live without his beloved bottle and then trying to get him to potty train which means constantly taking him to the bathroom which means having to get up constantly is NOT what I want to do at this moment. So I say "I'll wait until HC comes that way I can move and be on top of the potty training thing and I have already started to slowly get rid of bottles." This of course is not what Birdie wants to hear so she continues to harp and harp about how much easier it would be if I just got BK off the bottles and off the diapers before HC comes because I'm going to have so much to deal with when he arrives. I call BULLSHIT on that. When HC arrives KJ will be back in school so I won't have him around during the day and at night he will probably just want to play his video games so its not like hes that big a deal. KJ was still in diapers when BK arrived so it will really be no different then 3 years ago. It will just be like starting over again. Birdie acts like I am this new mother and I have no idea what I am doing and all this crap. I have 2 kids and I think I know how to handle them by now and adding one more is really no big deal to me. Maybe its earth shattering for her because she can't even deal with both my boys at once alone. If my FIL is not home she wont even take the boys. She basically just deals with KJ when the boys come over and she pushed BK on my FIL because he's more active while KJ will just sit and color or play Legos or watch a movie. BK wants to run around and play and throw things and be a 3 year old! She seems to forget that KJ was the same way when he was 3. So it really pisses me off that she thinks SHE has the right to tell ME how to raise and handle my children. It's just really annoying and I just wish she'd lay the hell off me and go away.
The other thing that annoys me is her constant asking me "Did Dr.Y give you a c-section date yet? I need to know so I can take time off of work." #1. If was given my c-section date I would tell everyone that wouldn't be something I would just forget to tell her. I would be excited so thats a stupid question. #2. You work in your family business. This is not a job that you need to give them notice or anything. They ALL KNOW I am due in September so it will be no surprise to them when she takes the week off. #3. She doesn't need to take the damn week off! She comes to the hospital for an hour every day of the week that I'm in there. She isn't taking the boys, they are staying home with Mom, so there is absolutely no reason for her to even take off work. She could come straight from work to see HC for her hour. So what's the point? I see none!
Okay, enough bitching about my mother in law. Goodnight!
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