I met a few new people over my wedding celebration weekend. Some I just can't get out of my life - like my step son. I wouldn't want to anyway. He's a pretty cool kid. Reminds me of my daughter.. just much much taller! I met a new friend. She lives in AL and is just wonderful. I wish she lived closer. If I ever had enough money to do a yearly girls weekend somewhere tropical - she'd be there!
But there is one.... whom I just do not like but she just won't go away either. :( Sad thing is she is my hubby's business partner's fiancee. So unless they don't get married she will be around for a very long long time.
Why can I not like her?? I think we're just polar opposites.
All week she was attached to Facebook. She constantly posts nonsense. Don't get me wrong. I'm not one of those Anti Facebook people, however I am not constantly re-posting spam no matter how funny it may be. I blocked her feed from coming up after she left. I just could not do it anymore. Now if i want to go look at funnies I just go to her board. Sorry but I got tired of seeing her non stop crazies. If she was not on Facebook she was talking of the vid hosting group. No one else cared who was hosting what or what drama was occurring over there. She logged in at least once daily to see what was going on. Why? I have no idea. I am also part of this community and I can honestly say I didn't touch it for over a week. Even when everyone left I still did not log in. Just had things to do... life.
She has this way of doing deliberate baby talking - but she is over 40. "I done dooed it" or "jes" (for yes) or "I broked my xxxx". Stop it already! I know that sometimes people miss speak but when she does it over and over and over again in normal conversation - well... that is not mis speaking.... that is ..... I have no idea but its just annoying >.<
She is just not girly in the slightest. I made sure that I tried to include her in all the girly stuff - going to the beach, getting nails done, getting hair done. She wanted nothing to do with any of that. In fact all week she was practically glued to her man - and no she's not shy. When we had the "girl car" she was always told by the guys .. no go in the girl car you don't have testicles. Shoo.
With all of her actions and the way she carries herself she comes across as an uneducated person - which i know is not the case at all. I tried... but its like nails on a chalk board. She is also stepping on hubby's toes regarding the business. He's talked to his partner about her but so far... nothing is happening.
I just keep telling myself I don't have to like everyone that walks into my life. I do have to be polite (which I am) and be kind when their near but I don't have to let everyone in. She will be one of those I guess.
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