Before I came out as trans, my husband used to celebrate mother's day for me even though we are not parents. His attitude was that mother's day was actually a celebration of womanhood, not just motherhood. I always appreciated that. Of course, this year we didn't do anything for mother's day, and it would have felt awkward if he had suggested it since I do not identify as female. It never crossed my mind that he would do something special for me for father's day though.
He greeted me this morning with a nicely wrapped box. In it was a pair of jeans (men's jeans of course) that I had my eye on for a long time. I had even gone so far as to try them on in a store one day with him but then decided they were too expensive. It was a really nice gesture that he remembered.
He made us brunch reservations at a nice place and told me he wanted to give me a blowjob. Normally I initiate sex and I think he was a little timid about making the suggestion. I strapped on a dildo for him and he sucked me. I don't get all that much pleasure from having him suck my strap-on, but I enjoyed seeing the effort he was putting into it. I let him go at it for almost 40 minutes before I suggested he finish me off with analingus and that is what made me cum.
Over brunch, I told him how awesome I thought it was that he spent literally hundreds of dollars on lingerie for my girlfriend. It really was a sweet and sexy gesture, not just to buy her lingerie but to buy her something so fancy and expensive. Knowing he would never see it on her and it would really only be worn by her for me. It implies an approval of our relationship that I already knew was there, but it was nice to see tangible proof of it.
He responded that buying gifts for Liz turned him on in a way he didn't expect, and he wanted to keep doing it. I encouraged that. Agent Provocateur is not cheap, and I loved that he wasn't just buying mall store stuff like Victoria's Secret.
When Liz and I were away last week she asked me how I would feel about having a commitment ceremony for her and me. I immediately loved the idea but wasn't sure how my husband would feel about it. I love Liz and I'm committed to her. I want her to know she's as important to me as my husband is. The big difference is that I'm not married to Liz, so if we did this I think I wouldn't want her in a wedding gown. But other than that I'd like to publicly commit to her. Something to think about at least.
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