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Early Morning Disagreements in Mom

Revised: 04/24/2022 2:14 p.m.

  • April 22, 2022, 5 a.m.
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Well hello there , I know that I am new to you but I don’t have time to introduce myself actually you may never know me .Anyways today around after 7 am Sunday 24th April 2022. Mom was next to me because we were looking at something for my IA and well she was cleaning her nose as usual she had a tissue and was digging her nose and putting the remains on it after a while she was still cleaning it and then how i was sitting was Infront of the computer and she was turned to face the lest side of me then she blew phew phew and i shifted back my body away from her on the chair she was standing btw. I did that just because i didn’t want her dried cold on me ovi and she got irritated when i did that , was it because i overacted and she hated that? Tell me what you think( I may leave this open to see others thoughts) She then began by saying why am I moving my body in such disposition et. and that is not nice ,so I explained to her that what she did and , she got even more mad by saying she didn’t do that and she was using the tissue. Like why the issue and telling me how i usually do that to her and other persons which is a lie I don’t act scornfully to wars others but I feel like she is projecting and I would say why later. So she was going on about that and when I asked for her to give me an example of when that happened she couldn’t say because she said I did that in public also meaning with other persons. She walked off and about 10 minutes came back usually I recorded our arguments if you will call it that but my phone is not working and my laptop was open so I decided to play it on my whatsapp web in my chat but my stupid self turned off the mic so not one shit was recorded and I tend to forget details after the argument. Always when she came back she said listen to me you saying that I do that is unacceptable and I said that is what you did and she got even more angrier at me as if I was lying and she then repeated the blowing nose Infront of me, I will do that (does the action) and says you don’t want god’s blessings and to be careful as if I committed a sin because wtf me moving away when you blew your nose with out tissue with out paper has to do with that. So I said I won’t lie about that and she goes on with saying she didn’t do that doing the whole blowed nose again Infront of me to prove her point like you can just say it and then she gave an example and said when she comes to lie down by me in the night or when she comes on the bed and I am there I move away my hand or body if she touches it and that has nothing to do with he personal hygiene , and I said what that have to do with that , and she said you wanted an example I would have understand if she said that and she probably was smelling bad or whatnot but I do that because of how she had treated me and for some reason without me thinking about it I just don’t want her by me mind you most of the time she does that is in the night when I am sleeping and to mention I am not really a fan of hugs etc. She then compared me to my sibling saying that they come and hug her and you don’t treat her like that and I me and my sibling are 2 different persons. She left and came back and said I apologies if I did that and soon after comes up in my face and doing the whole nose blow again saying you know very well I thought you and your sibling if you are blowing your nose to use a tissue ,like maam it’s ok if you made an mistake and I knew when wasn’t serious with her “apology” because she facial expressions were not adding up , she did the nose thing a few time to prove her point of saying she would never do that. So I told her what does me saying that have to do with god , as if I am lying. I said that me moving has nothing to do with what we are talking about now and it’s because if nd says when she goes to meet her siblings they hug her and it’s the closeness of the persons and I stated that well those are my boundaries and if I don’t want you to hug me or touch me you should respect that and well that pissed her off even more and she said that well if you don’t want me to hug you you’re an adult and you say your 18 now , which I don’t go around saying and I said it does not matter the age kids as young as 2 years if they don’t want to hug someone no need to force them. She said when in school I hug my students ,ok so? She gets on as she is always in the mood or wants to be hugged and good for them ‘saying that as if I would feel bad and I asked her so I don’t come and hug you sometimes or do kind acts and she said well if you want you can come and hug me ,like that is not what I was saying. I forgot some details and sorry if I was repetitive but please tell me what you think of what I have so far


Last updated April 24, 2022


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