Life On Mars in Life After 60

The United States has spent billions to look for life on Mars. John Gray made a few million writing about the difference between men and women in his book, ” Men are from Mars Women are from Venus”
To add insult to injury, God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world…
then He made the earth round…and laughed and laughed and laughed. But I digress.
Women are noted to be right-brain dominant. I am too lazy to Google who came up with this notion, but it is not always true. A guy I met some years back told me if I wanted to know what a woman was thinking, tilt my head to the right! (I didn’t say he was smart.)
I just took a test at https://www.mentalup.co/blog/right-brain-left-brain-test, to determine my left brain/right brain dominance. I am more confused now than I was 5 minutes ago. Men will never fully understand women. I am not sure we are designed to. If we were, there would be an owner’s manual with nothing but pictures.
What I don’t understand is why men and women are so different. In the field of communication, we are so far apart. Men, naturally speak Martian. Women, speak Venusian. It’s like speaking English to someone who only understands Spanish. The really strange thing is up until about the 6th grade, we both seem to speak the same language, then something magical and wonderful happens. Boys discover the difference between boys and girls and their minds never work right again!