No respect nothing in My life

My husband tells me all the time to save money as we are spending to much on food apparently but alcohol he drinks is not an issue. Then his parents come he criticizes me and what I do or do not all the time. His parents are not happy and they do not like anything. They are agressive verbally but my husband with asperger approves whatever they say and think. He does not know better for sure but still. Any advice? Thank you! Each evening his parents are criticizing me and he just listens. Very nice. He seems married to his parents not to me… weird but true. In my house I am criticized it should be a song ! Sorry I need to make fun of something.