me as someone who was born with losing my father when i was one . kind of makes me well aquatinted to living with the passing of a loved one .
I’ve got friends and family who to over the course of there lives lost there father’s or very close family members . i often see most of them taking a whole different outlook to life after that instance . some kind of resentment that put them on a self destructive path . over time most of them do bounce back and deal with reality after losing their umbrella .
the ones that do not , i often speak about them to my close friends and brothers , “ how some people have a really tough time dealing with losing a loved on “ . i completely empathize such friends of mine , a few have faced to much of death in a very short span of time , making them very lonely all of a sudden . may they all soon see the beauty in life .
then the thought that comes to mind is may be its tough to let go of loved one , if you know them well and have significant memories with them . may be thats why it was always ok , for me gulp the fact that i never had a father . as i have no memories of him . though the almighty due to some reason always kept an eye on me , for which i shall forever be indebted .
i still have my issues and i know that . i try to over come them every day ,” you haven’t lost the war if you haven’t stopped fighting .”
the problem i face in accepting my loss is that the person i miss or think about is still living and is more than happy without me . I’ve spent over three years of my life fixiating on that person and have damaged my personal growth and relations with other people .
this pure unresposive love has turned into a cheap obsession over time , which will just make our love look shallow . when, actually its as deep and vast as the ocean .
if anyone who’s going through something like this, never give up on love however know we can’t mess with free will of others . whats not meant to be ours shall never be ours . love doesn’t want to attain a person , our ego’s do .
in the loving memory of ,
someones mothers , fathers , brothers , sister , uncles , aunts , friends and pets .
may they all be satisfied where ever they are .
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