So today was a bit eventful. He decided not to work today. Said he had an “appointment” that would last till 3-4pm. Apparently that appointment was taking new GF to breakfast and dinner. While I was working, he wasn’t available to take care of taking a change of clothes to one of the kids at school. He was too busy for that.
He can afford to take the GF to the most expensive restaurant in our town, but lied about his income and the time he is supposed to be with kids so that he pays me a mere $485 a month in child support. Did I mention this is for 7 kids? $485 total! For all of them! I have them 90% of the time and make 1/5 of what he makes. I could have the child support changed, but when he’s angry at me, he takes it out on the kids. It’s not worth it.
So…I’ll keep struggling financially. My career choice is driven by my kids’ schedules and the love of my profession. Mostly my kids’ schedules though. It lets me spend time with them and take care of them. I’ll keep taking the kids when its “his time” with them. It lets me spend even more time with them. We are supposed to rotate on a weekly basis, but I knew when I agreed to that, I would have them much more than just every other week. That’s the only reason I agreed to it.
Honestly, I feel really bad for the new GF. I don’t think she knows what she is getting into. No decent human being should have to be put through what he does to women. My selfish side says to let her find out on her own though because it gives me a break.
Selfish side is winning.
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