In my life, I have had a repeating theme. It is that no one person can really only love one other person. That our love for others goes further than just the traditional grow up, get married, have kids, die. I’ve never really had those desires.
It seems recently, and very unexpectedly I have somehow gravitated people who are in open relationships my direction. This isn’t something I have ever explored before. Not only am I open to the idea being poly, but also I don’t care if you’re male or female or even transgender. I think that the love we can express and find in ourselves and reflective in others can come from a multitude of reasons and sources.
Recently Playboy released their first transgender model on the front cover. I found this fascinating. I believe that someday we will reach a point where we all stop viewing sexuality as a pre-requirement to find love.
However, this is only my experiment. I don’t know if this will be my new lifestyle. I will find out - with however long that takes. I happen to have some free time right now, I’m single and have zero obligations to anyone else. I might as well see what happens and what I end up thinking about this all.
I welcome you to join me in the discovery of a Boundaryless Love.
With that said - let the games begin!
So, tonight… is my first official date with a gentleman I met last week while out with a girlfriend of mine. I met a few people that night, but him I decided to meet up again the next day for a couple of drinks while we conversed. We are going to go have dinner tonight and perhaps go out afterward.
He has a family: a wife and kids. She has a boyfriend, although I didn’t ask too much about that. I guess he has been poly his whole life and one day he found out she had been researching that online and so he brought it up to her and ta-da - now here they are.
He is older, but in reality, I am getting older too. I actually found myself on bumble and saying ”Whew, you’re too young for me!” swipe left lol I also then removed bumble. I prefer to meet people in real life.
He has bits of grey in his hair, he wears these glasses, and when he smiles he has wrinkles, which I find to be delightful. I think I am a person who will enjoy aging to some extent. I think it gives us more character overall. He enjoys whiskey, like top-notch whiskey. We popped into this small random joint and they happened to have a whiskey he was telling me about, that he thought I would enjoy. Glenlivet, 18 yrs. It was the BEST whiskey I think I have ever had.
Really what had caught my interest in him is that he spent some time in the same place that I grew up. I NEVER meet anyone who has spent a lot of time there. We both spent time in Cuba. Pretty amazing to have someone who would relate to me on that topic.
I have no idea what to expect from this whole ordeal or this person, but I am open to finding out. I will write more after tonight.
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