My husband has been sexually submissive to me as long as we have been together, and I have always enjoyed being dominant in the bedroom. About 18 months ago, we started something different. Now he is submissive to me 24/7. I wasn't sure how I would feel about that at first because I didn't consider myself a very dominant person and I had never had a lifestyle like that. But the idea of having someone who serves and obeys you completely is very easy to get used to.
At this point, I would find it weird NOT to have him doing all that. I would hate to have to start cleaning and doing laundry again. The obedience is really the best part. Who wouldn't want a husband that obeys everything you say?
As months went by and he remained very submissive and obedient, I started making more rules for him. I gave him a 9 o'clock bedtime and enjoyed having quiet time to myself every evening after he was in bed. I would enjoy purposely making messes just so I could have him clean them up.
Ever since he started serving me full time, I have had him address me as "Ma'am" or "Mistress." When he and I talked this morning about pronouns, the first thing he asked me was what he should call me instead of those two terms. I thought about it for a moment and realized there wasn't a non-gender-specific term that I really liked, and I suggested he just call me "Sir."
He didn't seem bothered by that. In fact, he went on to tell me he would rather use masculine pronouns for me than plural ones because the plural ones would just become confusing. I could see where he was coming from and I told him that the masculine ones would be fine. He asked if he should still refer to me as his spouse or partner, or if I wanted him to call me his husband. The idea of him being open to calling me his husband hadn't even crossed my mind, and I was kind of excited that he was suggesting it.
Now that I knew he wasn't angry or offended by my pronoun choices, I decided to play the dominant role with it. I told him that the new rule was he would start referring to me only with masculine pronouns, he would address me as Sir, and would refer to me as his husband. I told him he would be punished if he broke these rules. He responded, "Yes, sir."
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