Wife's workplace and family in Snippets

Even though my wife works with the sex crimes unit for the police as a victim support worker of children and adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse. She feels extremely threatened, humiliated and embarrassed if I show up at her work and was seen by one of her coworkers or detectives because of how I am now dressed. She couldn't explain that I am one of those people she works with but unfortunately it hit closer to home. She can't even let her family know. I feel like a pariah by her aunts uncles and inlaws. She has told them I am sick mentally....it reared it's ugly head again with my nieces. Screw this crap.