Not sure if the times have changed or if only the movies and shows have changed in those ways. Interesting observations, though. I agree that alcohol could be better shown as the toxin that it tends to be, just as tobacco is currently seen as evil on TV and movies. As for flirting? Well, maybe coffee is part of it now, more than previously. And maybe people are still able to be more direct in their communication now, or maybe the innuendo is done more carefully and the underlying interest is easier to acknowledge. Who know? I'm glad chapter is in the past (at the moment) for me.Still hoping you will encounter someone with mutual interest at the appropriate time, and recognize it!