A quickie before I hop to another meeting:
Were feeling a lot better now, thank you.
We had the one-year freakout. It was ugly and sad and DUMB!! And I cant even believe that we seemed to lack the maturity to nip this right in the bud. It had to continue through the evening during our drive to our weekend getaway (4 hours), during dinner, at the hotel, during our nightcapjust little talks and jabs, talks and jabs.
But through it all, the talks actually made things better. And were working on ways to alleviate the jabs.
I told him that we were both in this together and that I cant be the ONLY one to blame. He agreed. I told him that yes, Im scared and insecure about our relationship, and he admitted that he is too. We agreed that we need to get through these times somehow, and stat.
We came up with a codeword that we can both use to let each other know that were feeling something (insecurity, anger, whatever). I am curious to see if this really works over time, but Ill tell you, it worked the rest of the weekend.
I love him so much, I do. I know for sure that he loves me too. These things I am positive about.
We are past the one-year hump. I am breathing a little sigh of relief.
Now, off and running!!
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