Found online somewhere:
In a quest to save a relationship people who have been hurt often bend over backwards to please their betrayer. Why? Because when we have been betrayed or burned the person who hurts us has sent a clear message that on some level we dont matter to them as much as they matter to us. In a rebound state of fear of loss this often translates in to the hurt party trying to earn back the other persons good opinion. It is a knee-jerk reaction and always ends in resentment.
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