Fun news! in Silent world

Hey guys! Last entry is horrible but to end that entry I have fun things to say!

Put aside Matts drama. Things are looking good for us!

I want to say this… I never thought I would be at where I am now. I am finally breathing, I feel calm and happy! Ryan is a definitely a blessing. I’m glad he came into our lives at the right time.. I think god have a plan for me this entire time lol…

Ryan and I will be together for a year next month! It is a roller coaster for sure! But he showed me that he’s here for the kids and I through the hard time and it made me appreciate him a lot more!

Ryan and I talked last night and we decide that we will surprise kids later this month by picking them up from school and taking them to King Island for Mykl’s birthday! We will stay in a hotel nearby and have a good weekend. Mykl will love it!

Speaking of Roller Coaster.. Guess where we are taking kids for Christmas?!?! Disney World!! The tickets and hotel is already booked! Ryan paid everything and we are excited to surprise the kids! 9 more weeks!!!!

Mykl and Ryan definitely have a bond. He looks up to him as a father figure in his life, Ryan is strict but he don’t hit. He discipline by taking things away, canceling fun day ( whether it is putt-putt or discing, etc) he realized that It’s something mykl strive for.... So he use that as punishment. It’s the same for Lexi as well…

Yesterday I went to Mykl’s IEP. The teachers and school staff say mykl really came around this time than last year. He finally feel “free” and excel all areas and he passed 4th grade level so he’s really smart than a average 4th grade kid. That made me so proud! My kids have come a long way. A year and half ago their world changed forever, a broken home, new school and more!

I am in awe on how they adapt to changes. My kids knew their parents are happier without eachother and they are happier with me here, it seem like it was meant to be. They couldn’t express their feeling if Matt were around, and now they’re pouring everything out. It’s better for them and better for me!

There will be more changes coming up soon, but kids are aware of it and we’re all excited! We really need this change.